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Decision making skills for students, taught as a method rather than a list of right answers.
A school week contains dozens of small choices and, now and then, one that is hard to undo. This session gives students a sequence to work through — define, gather, list, compare, check the influence, decide — and practises it on scenarios we supply. Which choice a student makes is not the school's business here, and it is certainly not ours.
In short
Decision making skills for students is a supervised group workshop GullyFuture runs inside schools for Classes 5 to 12. Using prepared scenarios, students practise one sequence — define the choice, gather what is relevant, list options, compare consequences, name the influences, and decide when to involve an adult. The school provides the group and supervision.
Why this matters
Students are judged on decisions nobody showed them how to make
By Class 9 a student has been asked to choose subjects, activities, friendships and how to spend an evening, and has been corrected afterwards far more often than they were shown a method beforehand.
Answering is fast; deciding is not
Asked what they would do, most students answer within a second or two. The gap between the situation and the response is where a method fits, and holding that gap open is the part that can actually be practised.
Influence is hard to see from the inside
A friend's plan, an elder sibling's course, a teacher's passing remark, the ten videos an app placed in front of them last week. Naming an influence is a separate act from obeying it or rejecting it, and only the naming is taught here.
Some choices can be reversed and some cannot
Students often give a weekend commitment and a subject combination the same five minutes of thought. Sorting a choice by how easily it can be undone is what decides how much care it deserves.
Consequences are usually imagined one step ahead
Students can picture tomorrow clearly and next term hardly at all. Asking what a choice looks like in a month, and to whom else, is a habit that can be built rather than a quality some students happen to have.
Postponing is also choosing
A form left unsubmitted, a conversation avoided, an option allowed to lapse — each hands the decision to a deadline or to somebody else. Students rarely count these as decisions they made.
What we cover
The six steps, and what each one is for
The sequence stays on the board for the whole session. Every scenario is run through the same steps, so that by the third one students are using them without being prompted.
Naming the kinds of decisions in a school week
Everyday ones, academic ones, social ones, and the few that point at the years after school. Students sort a supplied list before any method is introduced, so the method has something to attach to.
Pause and define
Writing the decision as one sentence before saying anything about it. A surprising number of group disagreements turn out to be two people deciding two different questions.
Facts, feelings and influences, kept apart
Three labels rather than three verdicts. A feeling is information about what matters to the person deciding; it is not disqualified, it is simply labelled for what it is.
Finding the third and fourth option
Most decisions arrive pre-narrowed to two. Groups practise generating two further options before comparing anything, including the option of deciding later on purpose.
Comparing consequences on a simple grid
For each option: what happens this week, what happens by the end of term, and who else is affected. The grid is deliberately small enough to draw on the back of a notebook.
Reversible, costly, or hard to undo
Placing a decision on that scale before spending time on it. A reversible choice made quickly and reviewed later is often better than a slow one, and students are rarely told so.
Values and responsibility, without supplying either
Students consider what matters to them and who else carries the result. The session does not hand out a set of values or grade the ones a student holds; it asks only that they be stated before the comparison, not after it.
Knowing which decisions are not yours alone
Academic choices — a subject combination, a project, a missed deadline — go to a teacher or the school's coordinator. Anything touching safety, harm or a situation at home goes to the adult the school has designated, through the school's own process, and not to a facilitator.
In the session
What students actually do in the room
Every situation used is written beforehand and fictional. Students are not asked to bring a real decision to the group, and no activity requires them to say what they chose.
- A short explanation of the sequence, kept to about fifteen minutes, with the six steps left visible on the board throughout.
- Prepared scenario cards worked in small groups — a subject combination, a weekend commitment, a group project where one member is not contributing, a request received online.
- A two-to-four exercise: taking a scenario that arrives with two options and generating two more before any comparison begins.
- A consequence grid completed for one scenario, then handed to another group to challenge.
- An influence-spotting case in which a fictional student is nudged by three different people, with groups identifying each nudge and saying how they recognised it.
- A reversibility line, where a set of supplied decisions is placed from easily changed to difficult to change, with reasons given aloud.
- A personal decision checklist each student writes and keeps. It is not collected, marked, displayed or discussed.
- Anonymous written questions, answered as general guidance to the whole group.
By age
The sequence holds; the scenarios do not
The same six steps run at every stage. What changes is how far ahead the consequences reach and how much of the session is argument rather than explanation.
Classes 5 to 7
Four steps rather than six, and scenarios from the immediate week — a group task, a borrowed item, how an evening is spent. Consequences are traced to the end of the month at most, because anything further is not yet imaginable.
Classes 8 to 10
The full sequence, with social influence given the most time. Scenarios involve a group deciding together, competing loyalties, and choices that look small on the day and have a term-long tail.
Classes 11 to 12
Applied to decisions with real weight — subject combinations, entrance-exam commitments, how to use the year after school. Students are asked to defend a comparison rather than state a preference, and the reversibility scale carries most of the discussion.
What students leave with
Modest, and all of it observable
What a session can reasonably produce. It cannot produce better choices, and we do not measure students' choices.
- Students state a decision as one clear sentence before discussing it, at least once in front of their group.
- Students run supplied scenarios through the full sequence at least twice during the session.
- Students practise generating options beyond the two a scenario arrives with.
- Students leave with a decision checklist in their own handwriting that they can apply to a later choice privately.
- Students can say which kinds of decisions belong with a teacher, which with a parent or guardian, and which go to the adult the school has designated for wellbeing and safety concerns.
- The school receives attendance, the scenarios used, and the themes raised in questions, in aggregate and never attributed.
Formats
Ways this can run at your institution
Pick what fits the group, the hall and the time you can give it. Most schools start with one session and decide afterwards.
Interactive workshop
Classroom-sized. Scenarios, discussion, reflection, and an action worksheet the student keeps.
Short programme series
Two or more connected sessions, with something to practise in between and a closing reflection.
Awareness session
A concise introduction for a larger group — an assembly or a year group — closing with moderated questions.
Teacher orientation
For staff: facilitation, what to watch for, how to follow up, and where the referral boundary sits.
What the school provides
This one works better in a classroom than in a hall. Groups need to argue with each other, and a hundred students seated in rows cannot.
Start a conversation- A class-sized group, ideally under fifty, seated so that small groups of four can form without moving furniture.
- A designated staff coordinator we can plan the scenarios with, so they fit the school and avoid anything currently sensitive.
- Teacher supervision present for the whole session.
- Sixty to ninety minutes. Below an hour the comparison steps get cut, which is the part students remember.
- A board or chart paper. No projection is needed for this format.
- A note on what the class stage is deciding this year — stream selection, an activity choice, a project structure — so the examples land at the right moment.
- The school's escalation route, in case something raised in questions needs to go to a designated adult.
- Printed checklists, which we supply as a file for the school to reproduce.
Safeguarding
How sessions with students are kept safe
A session about choices is one where a student could easily be led into revealing more than they intended. These are the specific conditions that stop that from happening.
- Programmes are arranged through the institution and run in approved group settings, supervised throughout by a school-designated adult.
- No unsupervised one-to-one mentoring of a student, and no private messaging or personal contact between a contributor and a student.
- Contributors are screened and briefed for the role they are given, and may not use a session to sell or promote anything.
- We collect only the information a programme needs, and seek institutional and parent or guardian consent where it is required.
- A student's photograph, quote or story is used only with specific permission obtained beforehand.
- Anything touching safety, abuse, severe distress or self-harm follows the institution's own escalation and professional-referral process.
- Every scenario is written in advance and fictional. Students are not asked what they chose, what their family decided, or what is happening at home, and facilitators do not invite real examples from the class.
- The session teaches a method, not a set of correct choices. Facilitators do not tell a student which subject, stream, friendship or activity to pick, and do not rank the options a student names.
- The decision checklist is a private worksheet. It is not collected, marked, displayed, photographed or referred to afterwards by anybody, including the school.
- If a scenario prompts a student to begin describing something personal, the facilitator moves the discussion back to the scenario rather than exploring it, and passes the matter to the school's designated staff member the same day.
- Anonymous written questions are answered as general guidance to the whole group. They are not traced to a student, matched to handwriting, or handed on with an identity attached.
- Where a decision involves harm, safety or a situation at home, the session says only that it goes to the school's designated adult through the school's process. A facilitator does not advise on it and does not follow it up.
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Questions
Questions schools ask us
What kinds of decisions are discussed in the session?
Supplied, fictional ones across four kinds: everyday choices about time and commitments, academic choices such as a subject combination or how to handle a missed deadline, social choices within a group, and early choices that point at life after school. The scenarios are agreed with the school beforehand so that nothing currently sensitive in that class is used.
Will students have to reveal their own choices?
No. Students work on scenarios we provide, not on their own situations. Nobody is asked what they chose, what their family decided, or what is happening at home. The personal checklist each student writes is theirs to keep and is never collected, marked or read out. If something personal starts to be raised, the facilitator redirects it and informs the school's designated staff member.
Is this moral instruction, or a session about values?
Neither. The session teaches a sequence for working through a choice, and asks students to state what matters to them before they compare options. It does not supply the values, rank them, or tell students which option is the right one. Facilitators do not correct a student's values, and no scenario has an answer printed at the back.
Does it cover subject and stream selection?
Only as one scenario among several, to show how the method applies to a choice that is difficult to reverse. It is not research into what each combination leads to. Schools wanting that should look at the subject and course selection programme, which works through actual pathways, eligibility questions and the research a student can do themselves.
How does this differ from the peer pressure programme?
This session is about the reasoning before a choice, including the influences acting on it. The peer pressure programme is about the moment itself — what a student can say and do when the pressure is social, immediate and in front of other people. Schools often run them in sequence for Classes 8 to 10, in either order.
Is participation assessed or reported to teachers?
No student is scored. The school receives attendance, the scenarios used, and a short aggregate note on themes that came up in questions. Individual contributions are not reported, worksheets are not collected, and nothing a student said in a small group is passed to a teacher unless it raises a safety concern, which follows the school's own process.
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About GullyFuture
GullyFuture is an initiative of Gully Future Foundation, Bengaluru. We design practical, age-appropriate group programmes and bring suitable educators, professionals and mentors to institutions that invite us. The institution provides the student group, the venue, supervision and the local context; we shape the programme and find the right people to run it.
We are not a tuition centre, a counselling or therapy service, a diagnostic service, a course marketplace, or a motivational-speaking business. We provide educational guidance and programme facilitation — not tuition, therapy, diagnosis, crisis care or guaranteed career counselling.
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Bring this initiative to your institution
Tell us the class stage and what that group is deciding this year. We will propose scenarios that fit it, share them with your coordinator before the session, and change anything you would rather we did not use.