Pricing and negotiating without reflex discounts
How to set a first price from your costs and your customer's problem, write a quote that explains itself, and answer a request for a discount by trading instead of cutting.
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Most owners set their first price in an afternoon, on a guess, and then spend years defending or abandoning it. The first customer says it is too high, the owner lowers it a little, and a pattern begins.
Pricing and negotiation are two halves of one habit: knowing what you need, knowing what the customer gets, and deciding beforehand what you will trade. This guide takes them in order, with hypothetical examples to show the arithmetic. It is general information, not tax, legal or financial advice.
What you should come away with
- Work out your price floor from real costs, including your own time
- Price against the customer's problem, not only against your effort
- Write quotes that say what is included, what is not, and what GST treatment applies
- Find out what a price objection really means before you respond
- For every concession, ask for something in return
- Decide your walk-away point before the meeting, not during it
Start with the floor. The floor is the lowest price at which the work is still worth doing, and most first-time sellers have never calculated it. Take the direct cost of one job or one unit: materials, packaging, delivery, a helper's pay, platform fees. Then add your own time honestly, including the hours spent on enquiries, quotes, follow-up and collecting payment, because those are real work even though nobody sees them. Then add a share of fixed costs such as rent, tools, phone and marketing. Finally, allow for the things that go wrong: rework, returns, and customers who pay late. The total is your cost. A price at or below it is not generous. It means you are paid less than the work costs.
Here is a hypothetical example, with made-up numbers. A small business makes custom printed gift boxes. Materials and printing for one order come to 600 rupees, delivery to 100, and the owner spends three hours on design, calls and packing. If the owner values an hour at 150 rupees, that is 450 more, and a share of monthly overheads adds perhaps 150. The cost is 1,300 rupees. A quote of 1,400 looks like a profit and is almost none. The point is not the figures, which are invented, but that the exercise reveals what the first quote must at least cover.
Next, look from the customer's side. Cost tells you the lowest price. It does not tell you the right one. Ask what problem the customer is paying to solve, what it costs them if it stays unsolved, and what the alternatives cost, including doing it themselves. A gift box that makes a client's festival gifting look considered may be worth much more to a company giving fifty of them than to an individual buying one. Customers differ in how much they value the result, and your price can reflect that through options and packages rather than a single number for everyone.
A quote should do some of the selling for you. Say exactly what is included and what is not. Offer two or three options where it makes sense, such as a basic version and a fuller one, so the conversation becomes a choice between them rather than a yes or no. State the payment terms and any advance. State the date until which the quote is valid. State whether the price includes GST or is before GST, and show the tax clearly, because a customer who finds a surprise at the invoice stage is a customer who now doubts the rest. Rules on how prices must be displayed differ for packaged goods sold to consumers, where the maximum retail price covers all taxes, so check the current rules for your category with your accountant.
Now the moment that matters: the customer says it is too high. Do not respond with a number. Respond with a question. Too high compared to what? A rival's quote, a budget limit, a figure they had in mind, or a doubt about the value? Each calls for a different answer. If it is a budget limit, you can change the scope. If it is a rival's price, you can ask what that quote includes. If it is doubt, more discounting will not remove it. Some customers are simply testing whether you will move, and the first cut tells them you will.
The rule that protects your price is simple: never concede without getting something. If the customer wants less, take something out. A smaller order, a simpler design, a longer delivery date, a plain pack. If they want a better rate, ask for a larger order, a commitment to repeat, or payment in advance. If they want a faster delivery, that costs more, not less. Each trade shows the customer that the price is connected to what they receive, and it keeps your margin intact. Write down what was agreed and send it the same day.
Sometimes the answer is no. Before the meeting, decide the lowest price and the least favourable terms you will accept, and keep to them. Walking away is easier if you know what it costs you to lose the deal and what it costs you to win it badly. A customer who pays below your floor, pays late and demands extra is often the most expensive one you have. Leave politely, leave the door open, and do not lower the price on the way out.
Keep a record of what each customer was quoted and what they finally paid, and look at the discounts you gave once a quarter. Many owners are surprised by how often a cut was granted without any trade, and to whom. That record is also how you decide when to raise prices. Costs rise, and your own skill grows, but prices rarely rise by themselves. When you do raise them, tell existing customers early, explain it briefly and plainly, and consider keeping a longstanding customer at the old rate for a stated period rather than letting the increase come as a surprise.
Finally, treat a first price as a hypothesis. You will learn from who accepts it, who pushes back and what they say. If nobody ever pushes back, you may be too low. If everyone does, ask what they are comparing you with before you reach for the discount.